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It's become a daily ritual for millions, but what happens when you de-activate your Facebook account and go cold turkey? Caroline Hocking - a self-confessed obsessive - finds out.
I'd done it. My (virtual) life was over. After two years on the online social networking site Facebook, I'd taken the plunge and killed off my account - in Facebook speak, I was "de-activated".
It hadn't all been bad; we'd had some good times. I'd enjoyed a bit of snooping as much as the next person and found it useful enough as a way to check out potential love interests, flog unwanted stuff and organise the odd shindig or three.
As a newbie to online social networking, my first few forays into Facebook had been cautious and brief. It had been a guilty pleasure - an enjoyable escape which tapped into a basic urge to share and compare.
Facebook has an estimated 250million users worldwide |
But over two years, I'd turned into a Facebook fiend, uploading over 30 photograph albums, posting countless inane status updates and acquiring hundreds of online "friends" (350, to be exact).
I'd got sucked into semi-stalkerdom and felt something akin to separation anxiety if I ever found myself offline for more than a few hours. What had been my favourite waste of time had morphed into a demanding and anti-social addiction.
The turning point came when I completely forgot about a long-planned reunion with a friend one evening because I'd been sidetracked by mindless Facebook mulling. This is ridiculous, I thought. Surely social networking was supposed to enhance my social life, not to trash it?
And the whole set-up had started to grate: so much pathetic posturing, fakery and careful cultivating of one's online "brand". People posted anything and everything, surrendering their own privacy and their friends. I didn't NEED to see pictures of strangers' weddings or the drunken holiday antics of mates' mates.
'Liberated'
I told myself that I'd managed perfectly well pre-Facebook and resolved to return to simpler times. I would still keep in touch with people I liked. I had a mobile and I was perfectly capable of bashing out an e-mail or penning a letter. And so I decided to de-activate. It only took a few clicks and was pretty painless.
Facebook demanded to know why I'd left - it even gave me a helpful little list of possible reasons why I might have fallen out of love and suggested ways around them.
But my mind had been made up. I wanted to see if I could cope without - for at least a week. It gave me the option to return at any time and resurrect my account, but I felt liberated.
Is sending a letter really such a hassle? |
One person, who thought I'd removed them alone from my list of Facebook friends, sent me an anxious text message, citing - and apologising for - all the things they had done which might have offended me and prompted a "de-friending".
Leaving Facebook was clearly seen as a BIG deal to them, indicative of something being "not quite right". I was flattered that people cared about me and felt a little ache for the ol' Facebook camaraderie.
Of course, not everyone worried about my departure - or even noticed. One of my flatmates was perplexed after seeing that their Facebook friend count reduced by one, but hadn't investigated who might have gone AWOL.
But one day into Facebook cold turkey and my fingers had itched to log back on. I felt bereft and out of the loop. I missed the online chatter of which I had become so contemptuous.
'Lazy'
Sure, I could have messaged people direct, but that is the beauty of social networking sites - while they make spies/personal detectives of us all, they also cater to the lazy. They allow you to be passive, throwing information at you which would otherwise take time and effort to seek out.
Facebook had made one-stop communication so easy and many of my friends were devotees; some only communicated via the site. Would people invite me to events if it meant they had to send me a separate invite rather than include me in a Facebook scattergun missive?
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I thought I'd enjoy bags of free time in a Facebook-free life, but instead I've just reverted to other distractions, like trashy celeb magazines.
And, even though I couldn't be actively involved in its machinations, I still found myself gassing about Facebook. I might not have been frittering away hours browsing its pages, but the site - and my departure from it - became my favourite topics of conversation. What did other people think about Facebook? What did they think about me leaving?
I found myself leaping on any Facebook-related story in the news with disproportionate enthusiasm. It proved hard to let go completely. The break (up) was tough and eventually - well, after just 10 days to be honest - I found myself reactivating my account.
Caroline lasted just 10 days without a fix |
My world hadn't fallen apart by going offline, I managed to stay in touch with the people I cared about, even if took a little more energy on my part (although I never did get round to penning any letters).
But absence had made the heart grow a little fonder. My package holiday-sized abstention reminded me how useful Facebook could be, particularly for organising and remembering events.
I confess my heartbeat had quickened a little when I logged in. When my homepage fired up, I'd felt a small surge of joy at being reunited with my long-lost friend(s). I was back and I was downright curious: what had I missed?
Not a huge amount as it turned out. It was like I'd never been away: acres of holiday snaps, numerous links to interesting news stories and YouTube marvels, and some funny/not-so-funny status updates.
I logged out within a few minutes. I've been back since, uploaded some pictures, dashed off a few messages, commented on a few links and acquired a couple of new Facebook friends.
But I no longer had the same urge to plunder the latest online goings-on and see what people are up to quite so regularly. I knew I could cope without Facebook - just. And if it all gets too much and I feel myself slipping back to my old ways, I can always take another break.
It has been quite some time since I posted up a picture post so here are some random pics I took:
WZ made this egg-potato-onion-herbs combination and cooked it using the sandwich maker (hence the triangular shape) because she wanted to finish the potatoes.Tasted quite nice :)
The next time i passed the road the sign wasn’t there already…but if you need ubat kuat lelaki u can always call the number :P
Nice clouds early in the morning (these taken with handphone camera):
They didn’t arrange the food properly like they’re supposed to :( Looks like it was just dumped on the plate. @Pizza Hut Alamanda.
Starbucks giving out coffee grounds to be used as fertilizer! Cool!
Cinnamon Roll & Caramel Frappucino @ Starbucks, Mines…:D Sat there for approx 6 hours and used KFC’s free WiFi :D
Some nice cloud pictures on a bright day in August (these taken with DSLR, view from my apartment):
Hope you all like the pics….any comments? :D
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Over the weekend, the equipment used to connect the student apartments to the internet encountered a problem and failed to function properly. In the future, please inform your Resident Councilor or Resident Fellow if you encounter problems with the network or the internet so that they can get in touch with the ITMS staff on standby.
We are sorry for the inconvenience caused due to the failure.
Pada hujung minggu lepas, peralatan yang digunakan untuk menghubungi pangsapuri pelajar dengan internet mengalami masalah dan tidak berfungsi dengan betul. Di masa depan, sila hubungi Residen Counselor ataupun Residen Felo anda jika anda mengalami masalah dengan network ataupun internet supaya mereka dapat menghubungi staf ITMS yang tunggu-sedia.
Kami meminta maaf di atas segala kesulitan yang dialami semasa kerosakan tersebut.
ITMS
5 October 2009
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Oh hey, thanks for the info! Maybe you could give us the direct contact number instead of making us go and bug the residen felo? Oh and if it happens on a public holiday who are we gonna call? Ghostbusters?? Cause nobody picked up the phone the last time i called!
Wonder if they know its been happening for a few weekends already. Don't mess with the student's internet connection ok! Was so close to TP-ing ITMS the other day!!
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